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	<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 00:07:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Overcoming Challenges by singles online</title>
		<link>http://www.datinghelp101.com/overcoming-challenges/#comment-13</link>
		<dc:creator>singles online</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2009 01:16:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Datepit.net cell phone text Scam Continues&#8230; by Eric Lee</title>
		<link>http://www.datinghelp101.com/datepitnet-cell-phone-text-scam-continues/#comment-12</link>
		<dc:creator>Eric Lee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 2009 00:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I discovered your homepage by coincidence.
Very interesting posts and well written.
I will put your site on my blogroll.
:-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I discovered your homepage by coincidence.<br />
Very interesting posts and well written.<br />
I will put your site on my blogroll.<br />
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		<title>Comment on Is Ashley Madison Agency a scam? by datingAdmin</title>
		<link>http://www.datinghelp101.com/is-ashley-madison-agency-a-scam/#comment-9</link>
		<dc:creator>datingAdmin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2008 23:25:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This article we wrote might help you:

Ashley Madison a Scam?
Dating Help 101.com has recieved numerous complaints about the Ashley Madison Agency, claiming the site is nothing more than an elaborate scam to take your money and leave you scratching your head.

Like the article written about the allegded SexSearch.com scam, it appears that the Ashley Madison Agency is also using Date Bait to lure in paying clients.  The stories are usually all the same:

1.  You sign up for a ”free” account on Ashley Madison Agency

2. Your profile, no matter how incomplete, recieves e-mails from interested girls in your area.

3. Problem is, these messages are collect messages.   Like making a collect call on the phone, a collect message is sent to you free by the writter, but to view these messages, you the reader must pay.

4. You pay to read the message, or upgrade to a full membership to read all messages.  You reply to the message from the interested woman, and Never hear back.

5. You have paid good money to reply to what seems like an automated date bait message.

 More over, other subscribers have noticed a severe lack of other “paying members” on the site.  Almost all of the female profiles are “free trials”, and very few real paying members. 

But the site may not be all doom and gloom.  A possible explanation for the common experience on the site may be no different than trying to pick up the only girl in a bar full of guys.  A website like Ashley Madison or Sexsearch has a ratio of 90% males to 10% women.  As you walk in, your profile is fresh and new, and you might get looked at as you walk in the door.  But once you try a cheeseball pickup line (like every other guy has done), she is no longer interested.

One woman told Dating Help 101.com that her in box had hundreds on e-mails from guys looking for a quick hookup.  99% of them didn’t know how to talk to her in an e-mail and just demand what they wanted.  She never replied to them, and continued looking through the 100’s of other emails.  She wouldn’t hook up with a guy for a one night stand, instead she was bored in life and wanted to meet someone, with the possibility of sex later on.   If you want to suceed on a site like Ashley Madison, write your e-mails to appeal to this side of her… not a one night stand.

We suggest Adult FriendFinder</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This article we wrote might help you:</p>
<p>Ashley Madison a Scam?<br />
Dating Help 101.com has recieved numerous complaints about the Ashley Madison Agency, claiming the site is nothing more than an elaborate scam to take your money and leave you scratching your head.</p>
<p>Like the article written about the allegded SexSearch.com scam, it appears that the Ashley Madison Agency is also using Date Bait to lure in paying clients.  The stories are usually all the same:</p>
<p>1.  You sign up for a ”free” account on Ashley Madison Agency</p>
<p>2. Your profile, no matter how incomplete, recieves e-mails from interested girls in your area.</p>
<p>3. Problem is, these messages are collect messages.   Like making a collect call on the phone, a collect message is sent to you free by the writter, but to view these messages, you the reader must pay.</p>
<p>4. You pay to read the message, or upgrade to a full membership to read all messages.  You reply to the message from the interested woman, and Never hear back.</p>
<p>5. You have paid good money to reply to what seems like an automated date bait message.</p>
<p> More over, other subscribers have noticed a severe lack of other “paying members” on the site.  Almost all of the female profiles are “free trials”, and very few real paying members. </p>
<p>But the site may not be all doom and gloom.  A possible explanation for the common experience on the site may be no different than trying to pick up the only girl in a bar full of guys.  A website like Ashley Madison or Sexsearch has a ratio of 90% males to 10% women.  As you walk in, your profile is fresh and new, and you might get looked at as you walk in the door.  But once you try a cheeseball pickup line (like every other guy has done), she is no longer interested.</p>
<p>One woman told Dating Help 101.com that her in box had hundreds on e-mails from guys looking for a quick hookup.  99% of them didn’t know how to talk to her in an e-mail and just demand what they wanted.  She never replied to them, and continued looking through the 100’s of other emails.  She wouldn’t hook up with a guy for a one night stand, instead she was bored in life and wanted to meet someone, with the possibility of sex later on.   If you want to suceed on a site like Ashley Madison, write your e-mails to appeal to this side of her… not a one night stand.</p>
<p>We suggest Adult FriendFinder</p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Flirt, how to tell if they are flirting by datingAdmin</title>
		<link>http://www.datinghelp101.com/how-to-flirt-how-to-tell-if-they-are-flirting/#comment-6</link>
		<dc:creator>datingAdmin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2008 22:17:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.datinghelp101.com/how-to-flirt-how-to-tell-if-they-are-flirting/#comment-6</guid>
		<description>Good Advise!  Thank you for sharing!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good Advise!  Thank you for sharing!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Internet Dating Scams from Africa by anonymous</title>
		<link>http://www.datinghelp101.com/internet-dating-scams-from-africa/#comment-5</link>
		<dc:creator>anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2008 22:13:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm a 40 yr. old divorced woman who decided to try the online dating. I talked to alot of nice sounding men, but none i connected with. THen, i tried Singlesnet. Well, i was contacted by 10 men who claimed they were in Africa on business trips, and all were coming home in 2-3 weeks. How wierd is that, a whole plane full of Singlenet men leaving Africa at the same time. 
Well, it gets better. One gave me his phone number, the one in Seattle Washington because of course, he's not from Africa, he's just there on business. I called the number, got a generic voicemail then looked the number up online. It belonged to a woman, without his last name. I then looked him up, and in the US, he doesn't exist. Well, the next day, he came up with a sob story on how he lost his credit cards and had no money and needed me to help him get money. He was stranded in Nigeria and the food was making him oh so ill. So he needed money to get out of Africa, and eat, of course. No, he didn't want it from me. He said he wanted his friend to send me $8,500.00 and i was then to send it to him in Africa. He asked me about my bank accounts and such. When i confronted him with the knowledge i had gained of his lack of existence in this country, he avoided my questions, and eventually, i ignored his responses and blasted him via Instant Messaging. Of course he laid the classic "you don't how much your hurting me" guilt trip. But, at this point, the only thing i believed was that he knew how to type.
Be careful girls. If out of state men contact you, pay close attention to the way they write. If you haven't talked to them on the phone, that is. Reason; people write the way they speak. You can catch a Nebraskan with a Russian accent in a heartbeat. Good luck and stay safe.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a 40 yr. old divorced woman who decided to try the online dating. I talked to alot of nice sounding men, but none i connected with. THen, i tried Singlesnet. Well, i was contacted by 10 men who claimed they were in Africa on business trips, and all were coming home in 2-3 weeks. How wierd is that, a whole plane full of Singlenet men leaving Africa at the same time.<br />
Well, it gets better. One gave me his phone number, the one in Seattle Washington because of course, he&#8217;s not from Africa, he&#8217;s just there on business. I called the number, got a generic voicemail then looked the number up online. It belonged to a woman, without his last name. I then looked him up, and in the US, he doesn&#8217;t exist. Well, the next day, he came up with a sob story on how he lost his credit cards and had no money and needed me to help him get money. He was stranded in Nigeria and the food was making him oh so ill. So he needed money to get out of Africa, and eat, of course. No, he didn&#8217;t want it from me. He said he wanted his friend to send me $8,500.00 and i was then to send it to him in Africa. He asked me about my bank accounts and such. When i confronted him with the knowledge i had gained of his lack of existence in this country, he avoided my questions, and eventually, i ignored his responses and blasted him via Instant Messaging. Of course he laid the classic &#8220;you don&#8217;t how much your hurting me&#8221; guilt trip. But, at this point, the only thing i believed was that he knew how to type.<br />
Be careful girls. If out of state men contact you, pay close attention to the way they write. If you haven&#8217;t talked to them on the phone, that is. Reason; people write the way they speak. You can catch a Nebraskan with a Russian accent in a heartbeat. Good luck and stay safe.</p>
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		<dc:creator>dates benefits</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2008 18:44:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<dc:creator>instinct</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2008 02:45:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Adult Friend Finder by Mandy P</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mandy P</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2008 17:41:50 +0000</pubDate>
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