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As is often mentioned much of dating or attempts at dating turns into one side or the other attempting to figure out their intentions.

Guys who know what they want are not desperate, not going settle for much less then sought out for, especially if they’ve been successful with certain girls in the past; therefore if you play hard to get like has been done to me all to often usually we will just move on.

I am not referring to the girl “putting out”, just dating in general. Anotherwards you like a guy a lot, but want to make him chase you a bit. He might be willing to briefly; however after a while he will become suspicious of things such as…

1)Are you actually single
2)Are you interested
3)Is he just a 2nd or 3rd choice so you only act interested when you feel insecure about #1 working out.
4)What are your overall intentions

Remember guys have feelings too. The macho act some of these so-called badboys is just that “an act”. Those guys often turnout to be the most insecure. Its a main reason most relationships do not last. As mentioned here several times, many guys who do have that intial line of bs that draws females in t/o to be nothing like they sold themselves as…meanwhile the guys that comeoff too nice, gooney, creepy, etc…often turnout to be the best lovers, most secure in the longterm.

This post was submitted by Jared.

Ok, I just want to say, please don’t mislead us. If you don’t like us “that way” just let us know. I personally have had many bad experiences like this. Because girls would be overly afectionate towords me (kiss me on the cheek, sit on my lap and the like) but apon asking them out they tell me they don’t like me “like that” and would compleatly stop talking to me. I let two women that liked me, and were great matches for me go, because I wasn’t sure if they liked me or not and I didn’t wana destroy the good friendships i had with them if they did not..

So if you are one of those “touchy feely” types, please just let us know before hand. We are bad a reading signals in the firstplace don’t make it more confuseing for us please, and thank you for reading.

This post was submitted by david.